Exploring the impact of social networks on our lives, scientists have found that the more sophisticated methods of monitoring the lives of others we invent, the harder we concentrate on our ones. Technologies that make our lives better can turn it into a nightmare if we are in the captivity of cognitive traps. Met us tried to figure out how Mark Zuckerberg childhood dream to make the world more open affects our chances of being happy.
Nobel laureate in economics, psychologist Daniel Kahneman, believes that humans are not able to make decisions that relate to our happiness.
Every day we are in the thrall of what Kahneman calls the “illusion of focus.” It means that we are simply not able to objectively think about some circumstance that affects our well-being, not overestimating its importance. Under the influence of this cognitive trap, we do not notice what’s important. The situation is aggravated when it comes to the use of new technologies that got at our disposal sooner than we had time to think about them. Today, everyone has a Facebook account and possibility to keep yourself abreast of what’s happening with your friends.
Everything is like Mark Zuckerberg wanted it – to make the world more open and connect people. But it turns out there are some scenarios for using the social networks that are harmful to our health and create obstacles to a happy life. It is Facebook friendship – or rather, after-friendship.
However, the roots of cognitive illusions are so thick that the reading of the article is unlikely to affect the way you behave in this matter. Let us try to understand?
People attach great importance to Facebook friendship – this conclusion to be drawn according to research. Thus the lion’s share of users engaged in covert surveillance of their friends. About half of the respondents recognized that spying on his ex after breaking up – for example, check out their photos for the emergence of a new partner. We tend to underestimate the complexity of the human psyche, so it seems harmless to us.
As a result of this many may be extremely difficult to avoid the temptation to spy on their ex on Facebook – it’s equivalent to combat one of the most complex systems of survival, inherited from our ancestors. Dr. Tara Marshall of Brunel University in London wondered whether to call such behavior healthy and how it affects the recovery after the break.
About 500 volunteers passed the test, which consisted of questions about self-esteem, quality of relationships, the specifics of separation and volume of communication with a former lover. These data and information about the interaction with the ex-partners on Facebook were used to construct a correlation model and a regression analysis. According to their results, it became apparent that the more people to spy on their ex-partners on Facebook (visited their page or watched their friends list), the more difficult was the recovery process after breaking up.